Nobody has the right to threaten you, or insult you or hurt you. Not even an immediate relative has the right to force you to have sex, or to humiliate you in public, control your access to money, or to stop you from having friends or meeting relatives.
Even if you are from another country, if any of those things happen to you, you are being abused and can ask for help:
The Department for the Attention of Victims of Gender Violence of the Interior Department of the Basque Government has set up a free and confidential 24 hour telephone service (900840111), for women who are being mistreated and for those who wish to report this type of situation. The telephone is answered in Basque, Spanish, English, French, Romanian, Chinese and Arabic.
Foreign women who have been recognised as victims of gender violence and do not have a permit, may obtain a Residence Permit under exceptional circumstances.